6/25/2012

MONASTIC GROUPS GATHER


Father Duane, Prior of the Benedictine Monks of Mineiros, attended the National Encounter of Monastic and Contemplative Groups held at National Marian Basilica in Aparecida-São Paulo, June 16-19. The unprecedented event brought together two hundred men and women from twenty five different monastic and contemplative Orders and Congregations throughout Brazil to reflect on their mystic, identity and mission. Men and women hermits participated, as well as some benedictine oblates. Sister Eliene, superior of the Benedictine Sisters of Mineiros also participated. The event was jointly organized by the Conference of Bishops of Brazil and the Conference of Religious of Brazil. Cardinal Raymond Damascena, archbishop of Aparecida, São Paulo, welcomed the participants and presided over the opening Mass as well as the Sunday Mass, at 08hs in Marian Basilica full of pilgrims from all over Brazil and the 200 participants in the Encounter. The Cardinal Prefect of the Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated Life and Societies of Apostolic Life, Dom Joao Braz de Aviz, participated throughout the meeting, with joy, support and encouragement. He said: "In my person feel blessed by Pope Benedict XVI." Before assuming this position in the Vatican, he was Archbishop of Brasilia. In the Marian Basilica, Sunday, he delivered the homily. On sites of the CRB and CNBB there are photos, articles and the final message (cf. www.crbnacional.org.br/Encontro National ...).

6/24/2012

News from St. Joseph Priory, Mineiros, Goiás


InFormAção
Newsletter of the Benedictine Monks of Mineiros

Retrospectives – Year 2011
Dear Readers,
       Last year we were not able to issue any numbers of our newsletter. We now resume the task of keeping you informed with this special issue of Retrospectives - Year 2011, and with the promise to put out more issues regularly. We hope you enjoy our retrospectives.

Studies: Our two junior monks, Brother Gabriel and Brother Carlos, pronounced their monastic vows, December 17, 2010, and in 2011 resumed his academic studies: Brother Gabriel, studies Philosophy at the Pontifical University here in Goiânia, and Brother Carlos, Theology at Santa Cruz Institute, a regional seminary, also here in Goiânia.

Between November 7-23, 2011, Father Vinicius - responsible for vocation promotion of the saint Joseph monastery - participated the second stage of the course "School Service of the Lord," promoted by CIMBRA (Inter-monastic Conference of Brazil) for persons working in formation and leadership in Benedictine communities. He did the first part of the course in November 2010. Present at this second course were 26 participants from diverse masculine and feminine monasteries in Brazil. The course was in Salvador, Bahia.

Departures: Brother Jackson André, who also pronounced vows in December 2010, transferred to St. Benedict Monastery, in Brasília for a couple months before returning to his family home in Northeast Brazil. In December 2011 he requested dispensation. Brother Atilio, completing the period of his triennial vows, returned to the lay state. Brothers Haroldo and Diego requested and received indult of exclustration to assist family members.

On-going formation: Father Joaquim Carlos traveled to Rome to attend a course on the Rule of St. Benedict and monastic studies conducted by Sister Aquinata Bockman, Congregation of the Missionary  Benedictine  Sisters of  Tutzing, January 31 to February 25. The course was taught in Portuguese for monastics from Brazil, Angola and Portugal.

Brother Gabriel participated in a course on the cosmology of the French Jesuit priest, Teilhard Chardin, October 28-30, in the Jesuit Loyola Center here in Goiânia.  Jesuit Father Carlos James conducted the course for university students.

The Most Rev. Antonio Ribeiro de Oliveira, Retired Archbishop of Goiânia, gave a rich six-hour exposition on Vatican Council II and its documents. He spoke of his involvement in the preparation of the Council as auxiliary bishop of Goiânia, participating in meetings of bishops promoted by Archbishop Helder Camara, who was President the National Conference of Brazilian Bishop since its founding in 1958, and later, during the Council itself. This day of studies and sharing was December 20th, in the convent of the Franciscan Sisters of the Poor, in Goiania. The Sisters invited the monks to attend: Prior Duane, Father Josias, and Brother Gabriel. Sister Therese Del'Acqua, a Franciscan Sister of Mary Immaculate, also participated.

Acquisitions:  In July, the community acquired a new car, VW Gol G4 1.0, with the help of the Archdiocese Cologne in the amount of $13,000.00. Income from sale of used car and a contribution-in-kind from St. Joseph Priory paid the total price of the vehicle - $19,320.00, including documentation and insurance.

Travels: During the month of July, Brother Gabriel traveled to France, guest at the Abbey of Notre Dame de Tournay by the Prior Irenaeu and the Abbot Joel. He spent July 6-11 at the Abbey, participating in the feast of St. Benedict with the monks of there. He went with Prior Irenaeu and novice BrotherJean-Baptiste, to Saint Benoit d'En Calcat Abbey in Dourgne, enjoying the fraternal reception Abbot David and Prior Jean-Luc. He spent a day at the Marian Shrine of Lourdes, travelling with Benedictine oblate of Tournay, Brother Yves-Castell.  Travelling to the region of Sable-sur-Sarthe, he visited the Abbey of Saint Pierre de Solesmes, where he spent three days. From there, he returned to Brazil by way of Paris, July 15th.  

Dom Josias Dias da Costa viajou aos Estados Unidos com professora Luciene Aparecida ao 1º de setembro. Visitaram a Abadia em Atchison. O Abade Barnabas pessoalmente os acolheu e mostrou a exposição em andamento de fotografias dele na galeria de arte do mosteiro.  Visitaram o Mosteiro Santa Escolastica e o colégio mantido pelas duas comunidades monásticas – Maur Hill / Mount Academy.  No dia 04, viajaram para o lado setorial do Estado de Kansas, indo para os Grades Rochedos de Colorado, prenoitando em Denver. ....
Visits: During July 25-27, Abbot Mathias Tolentino Braga, OSB, of St. Benedict's Monastery in São Paulo, brought 14 of his monks to visit our monastery in Goiânia. They also visited the shrine the Divine Eternal Father near Goiânia, accompanied by Brother Carlos, the Museum of the Brazilian Savannah, accompanied by Father Duane - and other tourist points in the area. A high point of their stay in Goiania was a visit to Abbot Matthias´ mother, who lives in Goiânia. She is a lawyer, assisting the National Conference of Brazilian Bishops.
Activities: Brother Carlos Alberto agreed to assist Father Rodrigo, pastor of St. Benedict’s Parish, in Mineiros, at the first parish Assembly, January 30. He authored the working document for the Assembly and coordinated discussions.

During July 16-17 Bro. Carlos attended the National Congress of Regional Conference of Religious on New Generations at the Capuchin Retreat House in Hidrolândia-GO, near Goiânia.

During his third year of Theology, Brother Carlos began preparations for Master Degree in Literature at the Pontifical University in Goiania. On July 18, in Goiânia, he attended a course on Theory of Poetic Texts, taught by Brazilian poet and literary critic, Gilberto Teles Mendonça, during a National Meeting of Literary Studies, July 17-19.  

To supplement his course of Theology, also in July, Brother Carlos participated in a three-day National Workshop on Canon Law in Goiânia. Bishop Fernando Guimarães José Monteiro, from in Diocese of Garanhus, Permanabuco, was the principal speaker.

In November Brother Carlos was able to participate in a course on Celibacy, in Belo Horizonte, Minas Gerais, promoted by the Archdiocese of Belo Horizonte. Cardinal Joseph Levada, formerly of San Francisco Archdiocese, and presently head of the Congregation of the Faith, was principle lecturer for this event, November 21-24.

Father Duane attended a Regional Meeting of the Midwest Conference of Religious Psychologists and Novice Masters on New Generations in the Retreat House of the Sisters of the Assumption in Brasilia, April 29 to May 1.  He also participated in the Regional Assembly of Conference of Religious, in Goiânia, October 6-9. During the year 2011, he served as vice-coordinator of the Reflection Group for Novice Masters, meeting four times a year. Father Duane accepted frequent invitations to preside at Masses and hear confessions in various retreats sponsored by the Regional Conference of Religious, in Goiânia.
Father Rodrigo is Pastor of St. Benedict´s parish in Mineiros, and Coordinator of the Diocesan nucleus of the Conference of Religious during the years 2011/2012.  This year, he began academic studies in Psychology.  Recently he was elected president of the Priests’ Association of the Diocese of Jataí; and was appointed Auditor by the Judge of the Ecclesiastical Tribunal.

Father Josias celebrated his 25th anniversary of priestly ordination in Mineiros, his hometown, July 9, with Mass in Thanksgiving at St. Benedict´s parish church, followed with a dinner and fellowship in a parish center where a large number of relatives, parishioners, and visiting religious and clergy gathered.


Throughout the year 2011, Brother Carlos accompanied a group of boy scouts, and helped organize and participate in a camp-out during October 22-24. In November, he received the Award for Rendered Services in Scouting, in recognition of his leadership, creativity and commitment to the Boy Scouts program in Goiânia. The award was conferred by the National Council of Boy Scouts. Brother Carlos accompanies the Goyáz Scout troop every Saturday afternoon.

In June 2011, Father Duane took a vacation, visiting St. Benedict´s Abbey in Atchison, and his family. While at the Abbey, he made a retreat with the monastic community. During the retreat he celebrated with nine other jubilarians his 50th year of monastic profession. He also spent hours in the Abbey archives, doing research on the early years of St. Joseph Priory in Mineiros.

Community retreat: All the monks attended a retreat at the House of Studies in Goiânia, August 1-4. Abbot Paulo Silva, OSB, from St. Geraldo Abbey, in Sao Paulo, was the retreat master. During this community exercise, the monks celebrated the Jubilee years of Father Duane, fifty years of monastic profession; Father Joaquim Carlos, thirty-five of the monastic profession, and Father Josias, thirty years of monastic profession and twenty-five years of priestly ordination.


Monastic Library: Upon the inauguration of the Father Kieran McInerney Library in 2010, new shelves were installed for more books and better organization. During 2011, we purchase more books, and receive donations of books from Oblate Simone Felix Motta in the area of ​​Sociology; and from Dr. Eumar Almeida Britto, medical doctor and professor at the Catholic University, and his son, Dr. Eumar Luis de Britto, in the area of ​​medicine. An inventory at the end of the year revealed a total of 13,139 volumes, divided into nine library categories, according to the Dewey Decimal Classification: 100s - 838, 200s - 7721; 300s - 1047; 400s - 232, 500s - 144; 600s - 394, 700s - 30; 800s - 1283 ; 900s - 538, and reference books - 912.


Vocation Promotion: Brother Carlos built a database of young men interested in becoming Benedictines. He maintains contact with these young people via E-mail, Websites, Blogs, and phone calls. Some, he visits personally, or they come to visit him at the monastery in Goiânia.


Chapter meetings: During December 5-6, with the consent of Abbot Barnabas, the Chapter of St. Joseph Priory met in Goiânia for evaluation, planning and election of their Prior. Father Rodrigo was the secretary of the Chapter. Father Duane was re-elected Prior. Father Rodrigo continues as Subprior; and Father Joaquim Carlos, Business Manager.  Father Rodrigo and Joaquim were re-elected also as Seniors.  Father Vinícius and Brother Carlos are in charge of promoting vocations, and members of formation committee with Father Duane. The Chapter also approved the entrance of two young men as postulants, beginning early March 2012: Victor Leon and Anthony. Prior Duane announced that the monastery in Goiânia will hire a man fulltime to care for the grounds, garden, orchard, and dogs.  And the former cook will resigned due to health, and that Eleni Fatima de Araújo will be the new cook. Chapter secretary sent a report of this Chapter to Abbot Barnabas, who confirmed the Prior´s election via e-mail on December 16, 2011.

World Youth Encounter:
Father Vinícius participated in World Youth Encounter, in Madrid, Spain, August 9-23.  The event attracted more than 1.5 million young Catholics from approximately 130 countries. He represented the Diocese of Jataí and the parishes in Mineiros. He joined forces with the official delegation of the National Conference of Brazilian Bishops, assisting with planning the journey and related events in Brazil.  His group embarked in Brasilia on August 7th, making a brief visit to Caceres, Spain, and a pilgrimage to Fatima, in Portugal. He continues to assist a national organization, planning events for the next World Youth Encounter, in Rio de Janeiro, 2013. 

Oblates: This year, four candidates participated in our program for oblates. Prior Duane was the master of novices.  Father Josias and Brother Carlos helped with some classes. The candidates are: a couple - Nélio and Cláudia; Clarice Moreira, professor and psychologist; and Ms. Simone Motta Felix, Social Worker. The couple terminated also their preparation as Eucharistic ministers. Clarice and Simone are married and professionals in their fields.

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With a sincere heart, we thank all our benefactors for your support, friendship, fellowship, prayer and dedication to our community. Thanks to you we continue our formation program, in hope to construct a solid future. May God bless each and all of you and your families!


InFormAçãoPublished bimonthly by St. Benedict Monastery in Goiânia.
“Retrospectives 2011”, authored  and translated by Prior Duane Roy.
Director and Layout:  Father Vinicius Rezende, OSB.
Editor: Brother Gabriel Vinicius F. Gontijo, OSB.
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5/31/2012

Article in Kansas Monks 2012 summer


Families often come together to cherish memories of dedication and love, and celebrate the Golden Jubilee of their parents, or grandparents. Likewise, this happened when we monks in Brazil celebrated our Golden Jubilee. Fifty-one years ago St. Benedict´s Abbey sent some of their monks to found another monastery in Brazil.  A year later, fifty years ago on April 26, 1962, these monks were received in the city of Mineiros, Goiás.
Abbot Barnabas Senecal joined us for the solemn event of our Jubilee. He presented a chalice to use at our masses symbolizing our united effort to live and strengthen the bond of the love in the Risen Lord. Bestowing his message of gratitude and encouragement he participated in three Masses of Thanksgiving: Saturday, April 28, at St. Benedict´s Church, Mineiros, Bishop Herbert Hermes, OSB presided. Sunday, April 29, at Holy Spirit Church, Mineiros, Subprior Rodrigo Perissinotto, OSB presided. Holy Spirit Church is where the missionary monks began and exercised their ministry until the creation of St. Benedict’s Parish in 2010, a second parish in Mineiros. On Monday, April 30, at St. Benedict´s Monastery and formation house in Goiânia, Prior Duane Roy, OSB, presided and preached.
           Following the Golden Jubilee celebration of the founding of St. Joseph´s Priory in Goiânia a married couple, who are Benedictine Oblates, came to the monastery to celebrate afternoon mass with us. They also participated in the historic celebration the night before. When I asked what they considered significant about the celebration the husband Nélio said a period of fifty years speaks of permanence and stability. Using a comparison from his professional life as a salesman he explained that some products stay on the market longer than others but oftentimes they also lose popularity.  Monastic life is a product in the offering for a long time and continues strong. Claudia, his wife, said she perceived a peaceful joy as several monks spoke of their past confreres, relating stories and radiating pride of their past. She witnessed their contentment in being part of this group of monks.
            Retired Archbishop of Goiânia, Antônio Ribeiro de Oliveira, was present for the celebratory event in Goiânia. Also in attendance was retired Bishop of the Prelacy of Cristalândia, Herbert John Hermes, OSB, who will complete the fifty-year milestone as member of St. Joseph´s Priory later this same year. 
Bishop Herbert’s arrival in Brazil coincided with the opening of Vatican Council II.  He attested to the manner in which the American monks related to the Brazilians over the years, listening and learning through dialogue. He said his fellow monks assimilated the spirit and teachings of this Council, specifically, the formation and participation of the laity. He stressed the warm hospitality of the families in Mineiros, who took us into their homes and hearts and made it easy for the monks to adapt and ‘incarnate’ into a different culture. He also emphasized the centrality of the Benedictine charism ‘Ora et Labora’ - Pray and Work - in our missionary witnessing. 
Father Joaquim Carlos, who joined the Priory in 1974, shared with the gathering of friends, oblates, clergy and religious that it was Archbishop Antônio who graciously first received the monks into the Archdiocese of Goiânia. He encouraged them to build their monastic house of formation - without need of assuming a parish - and maintain open doors to both laity and clergy who were seeking spiritual direction and sacramental reconciliation.
            Father Vinicius, our youngest priest monk, summed up: “With this celebration we took a hard look into our past and rejoice with gratitude. Now we must look forward - not just to plan and administer our activities - but to be men of vision of the Benedictine charism and evangelization.  
            With grateful hearts and renewed hope we embrace the future.  We thank every one of you for your support.
By Duane Roy, OSB, Prior

5/14/2012

Looking back over our 50 years of misson


The first three monks from Kansas arrived in Brazil early in 1960: Matthias Schmidt, Stephan Burns and Otho Sullivan.  It was only on January 2, 1962 that two Atchison monks, Fathers Matthias Schmidt and Steven Burns, visited Mineiros for the first time with the newly elected diocesan bishop, Benedito Coscia, OFM.  Upon this visit, their Benedictine hearts were decided that this is where they wanted to found a monastery, a decision finalized in April of that same year.

Fifty years later, only two monk-pioneers are on the scene in Brazil: Bishop Herbert Hermes and Fr. Duane Roy. The legacy of the monk-missioners, however, continues.  Our founders were virtuous men of goodness, generosity and loving care for people, without air of grandeur.  Father Matthias Schmidt, for example, was a man of decision; and noted for his simplicity, durability and serviceability.  Being people-centered he manifested love and respect for all persons. Witty and affable, he enjoyed singing Brazilian folks songs with gusto.  He was a zealous confessor, devout celebrant of the Eucharist and faithful in praying Liturgy of the Hours.  Father Matthias made it a point to participate in a variety of events, making his contribution. Vocal in defense of the truth he was a competent teacher and preacher. A constant collaborator with his Bishop, he was called to be Vicar of Religious in the Diocese in 1965; and in 1972, Bishop.

The strong witness of this monk-missioner set the pace for other monks working with him, and those who came later:  Ralph Koehler, Herbert Hermes in 1962; Eric Deitchman, Luke Wenzel in 1965; Robert Heiman and Duane Roy in 1971; and Kieran McInerney, Jude Burbach, Henry Deters and Franklin Highberger in 1975. St. Benedict´s Abbey was supportive and generous in providing monks to staff the budding foundation of St. Joseph Priory.

The monks in Brazil cherished the Kansas tradition of uniting monastic chrism and pastoral zeal, supporting one another in community life and projecting together parish involvement.  Joint ministry with the Atchison Benedictine Sisters, also established in Mineiros, was an enormous asset in witnessing, and enriching catechetical, spiritual and human promotion programs. Parishioners came to expect and received the best of pastoral service. In the mid-to-late 1960’s laity became equally generous and willing to participate in parish life, as inspired by Vatican Council II.  Through dedication, long hours, and hard work a solid foundation was laid for what we have today. 

There was a price, however.  Death came early for these men.  Like pioneer men, they die young. Matthias died at 61 years old; Henry Deters, 67; Eric Deitchman, 67; Robert Heiman, 73, and Otho Sullivan, our patriarch, at 76.  Luke Wenzel, at 30 years old, was permanently paralyzed by a traffic accident. Others went to other leadership posts: Ralph Koehler served as Abbot of St. Benedict´s Abbey in 1980-1989; and Herbert Hermes was ordained Bishop of the Prelacy of Cristalândia, Brazil, in 1990.

A new generation of young men from Mineiros became monk-missioners also. Sons and brothers of hardworking parents and siblings became today´s leaders, carrying forward the Benedictine heritage according to the style of the American Cassinese Congregation and Saint Benedict´s Abbey.  They are few, but dedicated and competent, giving witness in today´s society though fraternal teamwork, generous service and joyful giving of themselves, true to the spirit of our founders.   

In our past, many candidates manifested interest in church vocation, joined us, made profession, but soon grew weary, or discovered their true vocation. The limited, but solid education we Benedictines gave them hopefully has made them prayerful men, generous husbands, fathers and lay leaders in their parishes.

When a new generation of youth came along in the 1980s they presented different values, attitudes and work ethics.  They are called the Millennium generation. Perhaps due to the increase in acquisition power and consumerist society, technology with its fascinations and convenience left new generations with the conviction that parents, grandparents, social and church institutions should provide them with all their needs.  Without patience, effort and capacity to deal with frustration, the “easy life” is attractive.  Leisure, pleasure, and perhaps in some cases drugs affect effort and hard work, making religious life and church ministry less attractive. 

Not discouraged with this analysis, we maintain contact with many young adults who show interest in the monastic life.  The communal dimension of our monastic life, a strong formation program and prestige of our past and present witness blended with pastoral ministry - seem to speak to today´s youth. We trust some will participate with the monks that carry forward our rich monastic heritage well into the new Millennium. May the next fifty years prove true this assertion, bringing us a most welcome springtime!

Gratitude for 50 years of support


Many times memories spark sentiments of gratitude. In the throes of composing a history of the first fifty years of the foundation of St. Joseph Priory here in Brazil, these sentiments of gratitude are strong. Reading letters, reports, publications, and hearing what others express, reveal that this monastic foundation involved a multitude of persons over the fifty years. It´s time – even before the completion of a written narrative – to use this space to manifest gratitude to all those persons.  We frequently pray in our petitions during the Liturgy of Hours and at Mass for our benefactors, living and deceased. We ask God to bless family, friends and confreres.

Even before the first monk left St. Benedict´s Abbey in Atchison for Brazil to begin the foundation early in 1961, students and professors of St. Benedict´s College and Mount St. Scholastic College and Academy, alumni and families were donating funds for the project.  Interest was high. Papal Volunteers was a new project in the Catholic Church.  Some students and alumni of these colleges were already thinking and make plans for missionary activity in Central America. Newly elected President John Kennedy was soon to introduce the Peace Corp program, encouraging youth to service on foreign soil.

The Archdiocese of Kansas City was very supportive.  Msgr. George W. King accompanied Abbot Cuthbert McDonald to Brazil for the initial contact with church and civic leaders during fall of 1960.  Father John Stitz and others of the Archdiocese began the Diocesan Mission Cooperative program by which many parishes were annual contributors to missions, included to our monastic foundation. Many families and friends sent donations to a special fund administrated by the business manager of St. Benedict´s Abbey.  The no. 6 (1963) issue of Kansas Monks in Brazil published almost 300 names of patrons who built St. Joseph Priory in Mineiros, Brazil.

We have deep gratitude and admiration to Abbot Cuthbert McDonald, the founding abbot of St. Joseph Priory.  His vision and courage made it possible. Subsequent Abbots- Thomas Hartman, Brendan Downey, Ralph Koehler, and Owen Purcell were also equally generous and courageous in their interest and supportive decision to send and maintain Kansas Benedictines at the Priory over these fifty years. Abbot Barnabas Senecal, during these past twenty years has been constant with his presence and on-going communication, giving us support and guidance. We are grateful to them and to all the monks of the Abbey.

Our story is also the story of generous people, mission-minded persons who love the Benedictines and the Gospel.  We remember you, with gratitude.  Blessings of peace.

Família, Fruto do Amor de Deus


Deus criou o ser humano, homem e mulher Ele criou, E viu que era muito bom!
            Homem e mulher - têm o mesmo criador, mesmo carne e sangue, são pessoas, dotadas com inteligência, vontade, livro árbitro, capazes de criar, pensar, rir e chorar! São racionais.  Pensam no passado, pensam no futuro. Têm saudades e têm sonhos, desejos e sentimentos.  Gostam de dar e receber carinho.  Nascem tão frágeis, e demoram a crescer.  Mas logo, tornam-se bobos, e se casam! Será?
Casamento – “fazer casal”, ou “fazer casa”, acasalamento, iguais outros animais, mamíferos. Mas qual é a diferença com pessoas humanas?
Matrimônio – o que Deus uniu. Não é feito no cartório, mas no céu! Unidos por Deus, para serem enviados em missão. “Ide, multiplicai-vos”. Um só corpo, um só coração, por toda vida, amando e respeitando um ao outro.
Homem é sempre fértil; mulher, por base de cada mês ela é fértil. Iguais outros mamíferos.  O sexo para procriação; e também como manifestação da sua entrega total um ao outro, na intimidade de vida, como expressão de amor e confiança total.
Os dois têm sentimentos, emoções – alegria a tristeza, gosto e desgosto. Sonhos e medos. Os dois precisam de cuidados, um do outro.
Família – muitas e diversas formas:
·         O viúvo e seus filhos e netos. Ou sem, sozinho.
·         A viúva com filhos e netos, noras e genros. Ou sem, sozinha.
·         Homem ou mulher separado, criando seus filhos, sozinho/a.
·         Pai ou mãe solteiro, com filhos, e pais, irmãos, ou abandonados.
·         Mãe solteira com filho de pai desconhecido.
·         Ele ou ela, separado/a, e unido/a em uma segunda união, com casamento ou sem.
·         Casal de segunda união – ele com filhos dele, ela com filhos dela, e os dois com os filhos deles.
·         Jovens adultos, solteiros, solteiras.
·         Filhos sem pais.
·         Casal sem filhos.
·         Casal com filhos adotivos.
·         Casal com seus filhos! Ideal da Bíblia, da Igreja?
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Total 12 tipos de família (sem falar em união gay). Pastoral Familiar é zelo por todas as famílias!

Papa João Paulo II fala do Plano de Deus para a família. A família não é só uma instituição social. É obra divina. Ele e ela são chamados por Deus para constituir uma família, na base de amor, respeito, segurança, e comunhão de vidas. O saudoso Papa fala que família é santuário da vida, é berço da vida.

Matrimonio é uma vocação, chamados para uma missão especifica.
Não se casa para ser servido. Mas, para servir a outra.
A pessoa entra no matrimonio dando 100% de si, para o bem do parceiro e para os filhos. Matrimonio não é só legitimar sexo.       


Os pais se amam, têm dialogo, fazem juntos os planos. Os filhos são fruto do amor dos pais. Os pais não são donos dos seus filhos.

Os filhos não são somente para o orgulho, a posse dos pais – olhe o que posso fazer!
Os filhos não são para satisfazer o orgulho dos pais. Filhos não são objetos, como carro novo, que se possui.

Filhos nascem com sua personalidade própria, destinos, e qualidades para serem desenvolvidos.

A família é escola onde aprende amar, pensar no outro, doar de si, dialogo, respeito. É um grupo democrático. Os mais velhos em conjunto com os mais novos; homens e mulheres, diferentes, mas iguais; sem segredos, mas transparentes e respeitosos.

A família é escola onde aprendem dizer “obrigado”, “por favor”, “me desculpe”, etc.  Onde não é falsa com os outros. Onde o fraco recebe apoio, sem manipulação.

A família é escola de educação pela fé. Onde aprende o valor de oração, confiança em Deus, pratica de pedir perdão pelas ofensas, e oferecer perdão às pessoas que nos ofenderam.

                                                                             Namoro não é fase de experimentar o poder de seduzir, brincar com sexo, satisfazer a curiosidade do corpo do sexo oposto. É tempo de discernir a compatibilidade de comunhão de vida, de firmar a vocação, a convicção de que é capaz e quer conviver com o outro por toda vida, e construir juntos uma família.



8/17/2011

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Last night Father Josias and I celebrated our jubilees, he - 25 years
of priestly ordination, and I, 50 years of monastic profession.
Our small chapel here in the monastery in Goiânia was packed with
monks, sisters, layperson and visiting diocesan priests.  Abbot Mathias
of the Benedictine Abbey in Sao Paulo arrived around noontime
yesterday with eleven of his junior monks, touring central Brazil.
They stay with us for three nights while visiting sites around
Goiânia. The sisters are members of several Franciscan Congregations:
Immaculate Mary, Of the Poor, Sorrowful Mother - all friends of ours,
with whom we celebrate such events over the years. Among the laity
were some of our oblates, from Mineiros and from Goiania,
representatives of parishes where Fr. Josias and I serve.  Father
Denis missed the celebration since his flight was the hour we began
the festive mass.  Abbot Mathias presided. (See photo)  Fr. Josias and I shared
experiences at the time of the homily, and others spoke also,
including the two priests from the Archdiocese. A mystery donor
arranged for a lovely display of cut flowers, gracing the altar. Our
neighboring sisters, Franciscans of the Sorrowful Mother provided the
music ministry.

After mass all were invited for fellowship in the monastic dining
room.  It was a present celebration, enhanced with the presence of the
visiting monks.

After breakfast this morning, in silence, Prior Duane gave a Deo
Gratis. He and Fr. Josias shared with the visiting monks our
experience of founding Benedictine monasticism in Goiás, and landmarks
of our 50 year journey.  
Abbot Matias contributed with interesting
remarks.  July 25, 2011